Navigating the Holidays: The Link Between Language Skills and Behavior in Children

The holiday season—a time of joy, celebration, and a tad bit of chaos. For parents and teachers, understanding the link between language skills and behavior is crucial during this festive time. Changes in routines, along with the excitement of the season, can sometimes lead to communication challenges for children regardless of your child’s language skills. Hear that again, your child does not need to have a language delay to experience communication challenges during times like the holidays when routines are thrown to the wind. Here are three tips to help you guide your children through the holiday hustle with ease:

1. Notice the Unspoken

During the holidays, children may find it challenging to express themselves as daily routines take a merry detour. Keep an eye on non-verbal cues and body language. Is your child acting out or seeming “off”? It might be their way of saying, “I need some attention,” or, “This change is confusing/uncomfortable.” By tuning into body language and facial expressions, you can notice the unspoken messages and address their needs more effectively.

2. Create Time For Open Communication

With the whirlwind of holiday activities, carving out a quiet space for open communication becomes so important. Whether you’re a parent or a teacher, encourage children to share their thoughts and feelings. This could be through drawings, a simple chat, or even a holiday-themed journal. By creating a space for intentional communication, you allow children to navigate the holiday buzz with a voice, reducing the likelihood of behavioral hiccups.

3. Stick to the Core: Routine Matters

During the holidays, try to maintain some semblance of routine. Consistency in meal times (and food, as best you can), bedtime, and playtime helps ground children, providing them with a sense of security. Also, be sure that your children are getting enough time with familiar people (e.g., immediate family) and not just relatives they see infrequently. This stability can be a game-changer, reducing stress and minimizing behavior disruptions stemming from the challenges of adapting to holiday changes.

The Bottom Line

Holidays are a festive frenzy, and for children, this can be both exciting and a tad bewildering. Remember, changes in routines may pose communication challenges. Keep an eye on non-verbal cues, create spaces for open communication, and sprinkle in a dash of routine amidst the holiday cheer. By doing so, you’re not just managing behavior; you’re nurturing the language skills that allow children to express themselves in this season of joy.

Here’s to a holiday season filled with laughter, understanding, and a touch of routine magic!